Sain tietää tänään jotain uutta. Olen homo. Se on todella hienoa, sillä en ymmärrä, miksi siitä huolimatta nautin ja fantasioin enemmän seksistä naisen kanssa. En myöskään viihdy homojen seurassa sen enempää kuin heteroseksuaalien. Molemmista ihmistyypeistä on ollut lähes tulkoon yhtä ärsyttävät kokemukset, millä tarkoitan sitä, että homoseksuaalit ovat suurelta osin olleet yhtä ärsyttävää seuraa kuin jäykän heteroseksuaaliset.
Your result for The Klein Sexuality Test ...
Same Sex Only
You scored 134 On the Klein Grid!
This is NOT your Kinsey Scale rating. It does not reflect on your sexual identity, but on your social interactions. Completely shunning people solely on the fact that they are the a different sex from you is not considered a healthy social life. The point of the Klein Grid is to point out the similarities and differences you have with people who have a different sexual identity than you do.
Sexual identity (how people think of themselves) sometimes has little to do with their sexual behavior. Three different people may have the same distribution of sexual behavior in the past and/or present, but have three different sexual identities: homosexual, bisexual, or heterosexual. This may be confusing at first, but is important to remember. This point is often useful in helping people to understand that just because someone has a different sexual identity does not necessarily mean that that person's sexual behavior is different from their own. Conversely, the fact that someone else has the same sexual identity does not mean that that person's sexual behavior is the same as their own.
Eli olen persoonallisuudeltani lähempänä homoa kuin heteroseksuaalia. Itse taas en pidä itseäni persoonallisuudeltani homona, vaan biseksuaalina, ja selvittääkseni asian laidan, päätin tehdä tämän testin.
People who think of themselves as bisexual, heterosexual, or homosexual may find they are quite similar in some aspects and different in others. For example, in choosing people to spend time with in social activities, most women hang out with women and most men hang out with men. That is, both women and men show a social preference for members of the same sex. According to many national surveys, whether their sex is male or female, and whether their sexual identity is homosexual, bisexual, or heterosexual, most people have an emotional preference for women as close friends. We may all be more alike than we think.
Klein's research and the experience of many people indicates that sexual identity can be fluid (at least for some people), and can change from one period of a person's life to another. A person's identity may move to a new position on the continuum; that is,
- a heterosexual may change to a bisexual or homosexual identity;
- a bisexual may change to a homosexual or heterosexual identity;
- a homosexual may change to a bisexual or heterosexual identity.
Many people were sure that they would be, for instance, heterosexual all their lives, but discovered later that they no longer were. It therefore behooves one to treat others as one would like to be treated, regardless of one's current sexual identity, because one's sexual identity may change.
Both Kinsey's and Klein's work gives some evidence that older people are more likely to have been sexual with both sexes than are younger people. This contradicts conventional wisdom, which says that sexual experimentation is common among youths but uncommon among adults.
Despite the fact that someone may have had different sexual identities at different times, each sexual identity was appropriate and valid for that person in its time.
In some areas, the Lesbian and Gay male communities take the position that bisexuals are not welcome in the Lesbian and Gay communtites, that they do not exist, and/or that they are "traitors to the cause" and "sleeping with the enemy." This collection of attitudes is often termed "biphobia."
Olen tästä kohdasta samaa mieltä. Tosin lisään vielä sen, että oman kokemukseni mukaan heteroiden reaktiot eivät poikkea homoseksuaalien reaktioista.
It usually occurs with greater frequency and virulence in Lesbian communities, where it is associated with negative feelings about and political action against patriarchy and women's oppression.
Tämä kohta on minusta jokseenkin huvittavaa, sillä tunnen itseasiassa hiukan vetoa hivenen homoseksuaalisiin naisiin. Tällä en tarkoita maskuliinisia rekkalesboja, vaan ihan 'normaalin' näköisiä naisia. Tämän lähteen mukaan lesbot kuitenkin dissaisivat minua. Silloin päätyisin sellaiseen näkemykseen, että rekkalesbot vihaavat minun kaltaisia ihmisiä.
It is also clearly present in Gay male communities, often in the more subtle form of deprecation and ridicule of bisexual identity. In biphobic communities, an individual who might otherwise identify as bisexual may choose to suppress attractions to and activities with one gender or the other in order to identify as either heterosexual or homosexual. Alternatively, a person may switch back and forth, trying alternately to identify as homosexual or heterosexual.
Where there is no information about and support for bisexuality, a person may identify as heterosexual or homosexual, or alternate between them.
Uskallatteko ottaa testin?